The Illusion call Love and why it is hard for some people to understand

The Illusion call Love and why it is hard for some people to understand

by Okomyson Mark on Wednesday, December 29, 2010 at 6:11pm

 What is love.?.... in the absence of love, what do we have? if the opposite of love is hate, do we then hate all that we dont love.? And if in the absent of love and hate, we now have like and dislike, why do we cry for love and would even kill for it... now what type of people fall in love or at least pretend to be in love and lastly how long does it last to be in love... many of us have various explanation to all these questions.. But the question i have for those is very simple.. Are the answers they have from books and theories from other peoples experiences. If its true, then why do we have to use it and why cant we use our own experience and explanations even when it is obvious that they dont work,secondly why do we cry and shed tears and heart breaks when these illusions fade

Personally I believe that wise guys (man/woman) dont do it (love) and only fools cry and hope for it.. We are human, although we may try to want and indulge in it.. it is a wasted effort..Because only the gods have the power to do those.. We can pretend to love and tell each other what they will like to hear but the truth is that its all lies. because nobody in his right mind will actually pay the full price for love when it really count. Only Christ could do that even facing the ultimate sacrifice.( According to the Bible, he came from above and therefore not a mare mortal ) But for us all, everything has to be for a price. Either you are doing and saying it to people for something they have which you want or they are doing and saying it to you for something they want which you have( especially the smart ones among us)...

But still, only fools go into it hoping to loose all and gain little.. it is an illusion and the earlier you wake up, the better for you..... The only time you can experience love as far as iam concern is between a mother and her child or children... Even that still has a limit.. We can make excuses as to why our wishes dont come to pass or last as we want and we can use other peoples illusionary ideas and empty theories in their trashy books and seminars to console ourselves, but deep down we know its  a wasted effort. I believe that we should enjoy the bliss as long as we have it from where ever/ whenever/ whomever it might come from.. If your plan is to have children.. get them and move on and let the dead bury their dead.. After all it is only children that the Bible says that  are inheritance from the lord and blessed is he that has his quiver full of them" NOT friendship, Boys/ girls / love and romance / money / fame /or any other bullshit that we are crying and killing each other  here on earth for...... listen and be wise...

There is nothing ironic about what we do as humans because that is our nature, although we might pretend to do and know otherwise or even hate or kill to prove our empty points.. The truth is still there. After the dust of our illusion fades, we come to face reality.. To some people, it takes longer to fade while to some they see the hand writing on the wall and count their blessings or losses whichever they remember first.. The real irony is that even though our faces are different and we see things differently, how come we still rely on other people`s idea on how to love and be love....

We have the natural ability to know what our nature demands and that is procreation and when or however we go about doing it is totally irrelevant... This idea of Love is an illusion and the earlier we understand that part of the characteristics of a thing being an illusion is for it not to be constant . And when we realize that, then an only then would we not cry or kill for it.............